Customization of APK + nodeprofile

I'm unsure about what module actually allows me to customize the profiles as I mention below, therefore this might not be the right place to ask these questions. But maybe someone could point me in the right direction? Thanks!

I followed the instructions on how to set up Advanced Profile Kit with NodeProfile located on these pages:
Advanced Profile Kit --->> Installation and basic setup: http://drupal.org/node/214350
Advanced Profile Kit --->> Using Nodeprofile with Advanced Profile: http://drupal.org/node/214348

I decided to use my own content types (created with CCK) to use with nodeprofile, instead of the contents from uprofile.inc.

I used those content types as nodeprofiles for users.

In the default userprofile-panel-page I went to the Content-tab
Added: User context -->> User profile to the pane. And saved the panel.

Then I went to the My Account-page, where the content types are showing up as desired.

However I'd like to change the sort order. The nodetype that is shown on the top I want to place below the one that is actually placed on the top. But I can't seem to find where I can do this.

Also If I'd like to theme this "My account"-page where would be the right place to do so?

I'm wondering about what the contexts can be used for in this situation. I added context relations according to the documentation, but I didn't notice any differences after applying theme.